Monday, August 23, 2010

How can I add my child's name in the wedding invitation, in a unique way?

I am getting married for the second time %26amp; I want a way to put my son's name onto the wedding invitation. My fiance %26amp; I are paying for the wedding ourselves %26amp; both want to incorporate him into the invite.





Any suggestions would be helpful. Thanks in advance

How can I add my child's name in the wedding invitation, in a unique way?
Gosh..never saw that before...but you could say Mr. (your son's name) would like to invite you to the marriage of his mother and so and so.
Reply:This sort of depends if your parents are "giving you away" on your invitation. Do you know what I mean? Will it say John and Donna Smith and Joe and Jane Jones are pleased to announce the wedding of (you and your fiance's name)? If NOT, you could have it say XXX (your sons name) is pleased to announce the upcoming wedding of his mother XXX and XXX (your fiance). OR if your parents names are going to be on there, you could just add him to that part of it.
Reply:I see people saying to word it "together with their son" I am assuming that your fiance is not the father. So you couldn't word it like that. There really is no good way to word it. I've never heard of putting children's names in the invitations, and it wouldn't be proper etiquette. You could instead include him in the ceremony, and more in with the wedding, but I wouldnt suggest putting his name on the invitations.
Reply:When My mom got married again she used us kids mames to say we were proud to announce the marriage of her and my step dad. Then at the wedding my Brother And I walked her down the isle, and my sister was a bridesmaid, then when they asked who gave her away all 3 of us said we do. So we all were a big part of it and it made us feel better about her getting married again.


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Reply:if your fiance isn't his dad:








joey smith


invites you


to attend


the wedding


of his mummy


eileen smith


to lester jones


etc.


etc.


etc.











joey smith


is happy


to invite you to


the wedding


of his mummy


eileen smith


to the bestest man


lester jones


on


etc.


etc.


etc.


please come


and help me


celebrate getting


a new daddy!











if your fiance is his dad:





joey jones


is excited


to announce


his mummy


eileen


and


his daddy


lester


are getting married!


please come and


help me celebrate


on


july 4th


at


the rosedale hall


etc


etc





good luck to you!


it would be cute to see the invitations coming from your little guy!
Reply:well I have more than one child but ours say:








Michelle Andrea Green


%26amp;


Terence David Howard





Along with their children,


Danielle, Kevin and Joan


Request the honor of your presence


at the ceremony and celebration of their wedding.





Saturday, May bla bla bla





Fake names ofcourse but that is what the basic idea is.
Reply:We, Jane Doe and John Smith, together with our son Junior Doe, wish to invite you....





Junior Doe requests the honor of your presence to the marriage of his mother/mama/mommy, Jane Doe to John Smith...
Reply:I don't really think your son's name belongs on the invitation, since he is not hosting the wedding. Can you put him in the wedding program instead, as sort of a guest of honor or something?
Reply:lets say your son's name is Johnathan Baker;





Johnathan Baker


requests the pleasure of your company


at the wedding of


his dad and mom


(your fiance and your names)


at so and so place


on so and so date
Reply:Have the child do the inviting as:





Johnny X cordially invites you to the wedding of his mother, Jane Doe to John doe ...........................................
Reply:Jane Smith and John Doe,


together with their son Andy Smith,


invite you to join them in their celebration of holy matrimony...
Reply:Where it would usually say the parents invite, put the child's name instead.
Reply:I'm assuming your son is from your first marriage?


I would say:





Jane Doe and John Smith


would like you to join them and Jane's son Jack


at the celebration of their marriage.
Reply:I am trying to incorporate all four children. Hope you don't mind if i keep an eye on this question.





I like what the first one said. It's sounds nice
Reply:You wouldn't. He's not inviting anyone to anything.
Reply:This is a great idea. wow good thinking.
Reply:how bou a little poem on the side with his name in it
Reply:You can't really say "with our son, Johnny" because you will be deliberating hurting your ex-husband, or if you are a widow, his family. Weddings are for joy, not for being insensitive towards anyone and your son knows that this is not his bio father. Probably the best thing you can do is say "Jane Smith and Rod Brown, along with Johnny Smith, invite you...." - or- Johnny Smith invites you to attend the wedding of his mom, Jane Smith, to Rod Brown." People you are inviting know that you have a son from a prior relationship and you don't really need to have his name on the invite. Doesn't matter who is paying for the wedding. Why not just say "Jane Smith and Rod Brown invite you to attend their marriage at...." and the, during the exchange of the rings, have the officiant perform a little ceremony where Rod promises to accept Johnny as a part of you and treat him like a son. I have seen invites where a bride is older with a few kids and the invite said "The children of Mary Smith invite you to attend the marriage of their mother to Mr.Rod Brown ...." Again - doesn't matter who's paying the bills!
Reply:Me and my new man and his rugrat want to invites u to our shin dig which is gunna be a blast. Bring your own booze, and plan to throw moneys and gifts our ways. Gifts caqn now include Nintendo DS and games since his rugrat is in the pic now. Holla back by: (RSVP date here)
Reply:Even though this is (insert your name and your fiance's name here), (insert son's name here) really wants you to come and enjoy the experience with us!
Reply:you should put him as the ring barrer and then he'll be one there and it'll be special.

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